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| Here's a quick frugal cake decorating tip:
If you're making your own fondant and use up the standard 2lb bag of powdered sugar, you can store the fondant in that bag with the top twisted shut and held with a twist-tie. It's got a sugar-dusted lining so it won't stick too much, it's good thick plastic, and the perfect size.
Then when you're done with that fondant, you can chuck the bag knowing that you got a second use out of it and didn't need to use virgin plastic. | comments: Leave a comment  |
| Time to post some articles about food I've had sitting in tabs forever...
Getting Real About the High Price of Cheap Food - If you haven't read Michael Pollan's stuff, this is a good summary of the problem with artificially cheap food. Yes, I do get that not everyone can afford the organic/pastured stuff, although I do know lots of people who choose to spend money on things like high-cost cell phone plans and top-tier cable packages instead of better quality food. Not everyone has a choice (some areas don't even have pastured meat available), but more people have more of a choice than many would like to admit. If you choose HBO over organic apples, that's totally up to you, but please don't include yourself with the "I can't afford it" crowd because there are people out there who are highly frugal and still truly can't afford organic/pastured.
For the record, Corran and I aren't purists on this stuff. We still do the occasional convenience/processed food when we could do scratch for the same sort of thing. But yeah, some nights, it's easier to pop a couple of Marie Callendar's frozen chicken pot pies in the oven (which is what we're doing tonight) than to get all-organic, all-pastured ingredients and make from scratch. The scratch one would be healthier and taste better but cost several times as much in money and time. We're realistic about it. It's just that when there's a choice to use the better stuff when we are doing real cooking, we've been trying to make that choice as often as possible (given that it's not like the regular grocery store even carries pastured meat).
If everyone made a small effort, everyone would discover that the real stuff tastes better and sales would increase so the price would fall and availability would increase, creating a feedback loop for positive change. Those of us who can afford it need to help pave the way now so one day everyone else can too. It's not right that a poor mom can make food stamps go further with junk food than organic produce.
Highlights from the article:
So what's wrong with cheap food and cheap meat — especially in a world in which more than 1 billion people go hungry? A lot. For one thing, not all food is equally inexpensive; fruits and vegetables don't receive the same price supports as grains. A study in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition found that a dollar could buy 1,200 calories of potato chips or 875 calories of soda but just 250 calories of vegetables or 170 calories of fresh fruit.
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When runoff from the fields of the Midwest reaches the Gulf of Mexico, it contributes to what's known as a dead zone, a seasonal, approximately 6,000-sq.-mi. area that has almost no oxygen and therefore almost no sea life. Because of the dead zone, the $2.8 billion Gulf of Mexico fishing industry loses 212,000 metric tons of seafood a year, and around the world, there are nearly 400 similar dead zones. Even as we produce more high-fat, high-calorie foods, we destroy one of our leanest and healthiest sources of protein.
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For most people, price will remain the biggest obstacle. Organic food continues to cost on average several times more than its conventional counterparts, and no one goes to farmers' markets for bargains. But not all costs can be measured by a price tag. Once you factor in crop subsidies, ecological damage and what we pay in health-care bills after our fatty, sugary diet makes us sick, conventionally produced food looks a lot pricier.
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According to research from the University of California, grass-fed beef is higher in beta-carotene, vitamin E and omega-3 fatty acids than conventional beef
Consumers Devouring Nutrient-Spiked Foods - This one is about not falling for the bogus health claims all over food packaging these days. Chocolate bars will not cure your heart disease. Breakfast cereal is not going to make your kid athletic. We like Pollan's edict (from his book, not this article) that the more a processed food shouts about its health benefits, the more you should be skeptical because it's covering up for all of its unhealthy ingredients...and fruit and veg don't need to make those bogus claims for obvious reasons.
From heart-friendly margarines to sugary cereals that strengthen bones, once-demonized foods are being spiked with nutrients to give them a healthier glow — and consumers are biting, even on some that are little more than dressed-up junk food.
Read the labels, folks. "Whole grain" on the front might just mean a sprinkling of oats on top of something that's otherwise highly processed white flour and lots of sugar. Check for levels of bad fats, sodium (a big one in processed foods), and specific nasty ingredients like high fructose corn syrup, MSG, etc.
Also, be aware that a sneaky trick used to hide the amount of sugar (especially in cereals, because they know mothers read the ingredients there) is to use several kinds of sugar so they're all further down the list, since ingredient lists are by highest amount first. So don't be fooled and think that a breakfast cereal isn't too sugary because flour or oats is the first ingredient; check for sugar, sucrose, dextrose, corn syrup, high-fructose corn syrup, and other sugar names. If it's got several, they're deliberately hiding the sugar content from you. Make your choice an informed one, so at least if you decide you're really craving that sugar cereal, you know what you're eating.
After all of that unpleasant news, here's a pick-me-up that's totally unhealthy but fun:
How to make cake and cookies look like a hamburger and fries meal - Yeah, I see the HFCS-and-other-ickies-laden foods there, which totally conflicts with what I've posted above, but here's the thing: if everyone only had this kind of processed stuff once a month or less, it wouldn't be a problem. So the next time you want to have a box mix, turn it into a super-cool and special activity you can do with your kids* instead of an every-night calorie binge.
* For those who say they or their kids can't do fun/artistic stuff like this with food, PAH-LEEZE, Peo decorated her first cake before she was 3 and entered her first cake show shortly after. Yeah, each was a big sticky mess and far from sculpturally accurate, but that's not the point. She had fun. She valued that time with me and I with her. She learned stuff about cooking and construction. That's pretty big value for the investment of time and cleaning, and you get cake out of it, which tastes good even if the icing is lumpy. | comments: 11 comments or Leave a comment  |
| Attention parents: it's time to boycott Mattel.
Mattel, Primary Reason For Toy Safety Law, Gets Exempted From It - "...the government has secretly exempted Mattel from the law's testing requirements—even though Mattel was responsible for 6 lead-tainted toy recalls in 2007."
Not that we buy a lot of first-hand toys for Peo anyway, but as far as I'm concerned, we're in full boycott mode until Mattel starts playing nicely with others. This means:
1) We will not buy any Mattel or subsidiary products for Peo for her birthday or Christmas or any other occasion.
2) We are asking that anyone likely to buy Peo a toy (keeping in mind that her birthday party this year will be gift-optional, mostly because we'd like to stay with no gifts but we realize that older kids enjoy giving to their friends, so we're encouraging kid-made gifts but leaving it optional for busy parents) to please not buy any Mattel or subsidiary product. Which is even easier if you go with the kid-made gift option anyway. Or books. Peo likes books. That's an easy way to avoid it.
Mattel's subsidiaries (from http://www.coopamerica.org/programs/responsibleshopper/company.cfm?id=263):
- American Girl LLC. (Subsidiary) - Middleton, WI - American Girl Place Inc. - Chicago, IL - Ensueno-Tyco (Mexico) S.A. de C.V. - Mexico, Mexico - Ensueno-Tyco (Mexico) S.A. de C.V. - Mexico, Mexico - Fisher-Price, Inc. - East Aurora, NY - Mattel (Malaysia) SDN. BHD. - Prai, Malaysia - Mattel (UK) Ltd. - Maidenhead, United Kingdom - Mattel Asia Ltd. - North Point, China (Hong Kong) - Mattel Australia Pty. Ltd. - Richmond, Australia - Mattel Australia Pty.Ltd. - Richmond, Australia - Mattel B.V. (Netherlands) - Amstelveen, Netherlands - Mattel Canada, Inc. - Mississauga, Canada - Mattel Chile S.A. - Santiago, Chile - Mattel de Mexico - Mexico, Mexico - Mattel Espana, S.A. - Barcelona, Spain - Mattel France S A S - Rungis, France - Mattel Games/Puzzles - El Segundo, CA - Mattel GmbH - Dreieich, Germany - Mattel GmbH - Wiener Neudorf, Austria - Mattel Holding, Inc. - El Segundo, CA - Mattel Overseas, Inc. - El Segundo, CA - Mattel Pty. Ltd. - Richmond, Australia - Mattel S.R.L. - Novara, Italy - Mattel Suisse AG - Bern, Switzerland - Mattel Toy Company Ltd. - Shau Kei Wan, China (Hong Kong) - Mattel Toys (H.K.) Ltd. - Shau Kei Wan, China (Hong Kong) - Mattel Toys Limited (New Zealand) - Auckland, New Zealand - Precision Moulds, Ltd. - Kowloon, China (Hong Kong) - Tyco Investment Corp. - Wilmington, DE - Tyco Playtime Inc. - New York, NY | comments: 10 comments or Leave a comment  |
| How to make a small child happy the frugal way:
1) If you spot cheap stickers in a bargain bin, get them. Cheap is at least 100 per dollar or better.
2) If the stickers are on a strip, keep the strip when empty.
3) When child requests purchase of expensive ribbon-on-a-stick, or in the case of Peo yesterday, just complains about having nothing she wants to do in the backyard, tie the empty sticker strip on a stick.
4) Enjoy as child runs around the backyard like a crazy person, absolutely thrilled with her own ribbon-on-a-stick, which makes way better noises than the expensive kind anyway (the paper-plastic sticker strip goes THBBBTTTPPP when waved quickly). Plus who cares if the child is too rough with it? No sensible parent would let a child experimentally stick a silk or cloth ribbon into a thorny bush repeatedly, but with re-used waste materials, let 'em experiment! Woot! | comments: 2 comments or Leave a comment  |
| Wanna know an awesome thing about having used prefold cloth diapers?
Now, when I've got an iodine-soaked dressing on my foot and some of the iodine wicks out along the bandage, all I have to do is put a diaper down under my foot and voila, potential staining mess contained. And who cares if the diaper gets stained...iodine is the cleanest brown stuff it ever had on it! | comments: Leave a comment  |
| With Peo's up and down angstiness, we don't often feel like genius parents. However, there is something we frequently do that can sometimes avoid angst ramping up in the first place, and it takes hardly any time/materials/cost over and above what would be done otherwise: we add faces or other silly designs to things.
Here are some recent examples of how taking a few seconds to do something silly can really help with a 2-4 year old child:
1) In any kind of food preparation, especially one where the child might otherwise be a fussy eater, make some or all of the food into a smiley face shape. If the child is old enough and willing to help, bonus points, since kids are more inclined to eat things they help "cook". Some examples:
- Pepperoni slices, mushrooms, etc. on a pizza, including
adding extra to pre-made frozen pizzas (we did this for dinner tonight, since we had extra pepperoni on hand from a previous homemade pizza night and we were throwing pre-made frozen mini pizzas in the oven for an easy dinner)
- Fruit salad (which is always cheaper and lower-sugar if
made from fresh fruit cut up at home versus canned stuff, but granted, you can't always get decent fresh stuff at a decent cost)...just plop down some bits for an eyes, nose, and mouth on the kid's plate and make the rest "hair" or "body" or whatever.
- Anything on a tortilla, or even regular bread. Deli
meat, veggies, leftover chicken chunks, whatever. Arrange a few bits as a face and again, call the rest "hair" or "body" or whatever. Peo thinks it's a huge treat if I put the tiniest dots of BBQ sauce on as mini smileys all around as a bonus. She will eat food that would otherwise get a sneer if I do this. Seriously. Bits of shredded cheese make fab hair.
- Meatballs on spaghetti in a face pattern. Also works
with meat lumps in hamburger-helper type meals. Any combo of pasta/cheese/meet that's vaguely face-like will do.
- Blueberries (dried or frozen to save money when not in
season) on cereal, be it hot, cold, dry, wet, whatever. Or other berries. A little fruit face goes a long way to getting that whole grain goodness into them.
- Most solid lumps of something can be cut up for a face:
hot dogs, meatloaf, whatever. And if it truly doesn't work cut up, stab the face onto the surface, like on a sandwich or whatever...just poke some holes and sort of squish them out if needed to make clear eyes and a mouth.
Notes: - Faces don't have to be perfect; kids can figure it out. Sillier is sometimes better. - Sometimes the kid will eat the face off first. Fine. Let them. Then plop more of the dinner into a new face and they will eat it. Keep up a good mood about it and you can trick them into eating all of their dinner quickly. It's like frickin' magic, I swear. - Do try to avoid mixing foods that will get soggy if your kid hates this (as Peo does), so no crackers with the wet fruit salad. - Making the face say "hi" or "eat me" or "don't eat me" or whatever in a silly voice does wonders as well. - Give in to whatever gory violence your kid does to the face. If they squeal about eating the eyes, squeal back about how gross it is. This ramps up the fun BIG TIME.
If you're artistic, you can go beyond faces for other shapes, but there's a caveat: the more detailed you get, the more detailed you'll continually be expected to be, so don't over-commit yourself. I made the mistake of trying to carve an Ernie-head out of a piece of cantaloupe when Peo was 2-ish and she wanted a damned Ernie head on every piece of melon for ages after that. Keep it simple for daily stuff, and if you feel the urge to push your limits, save it for obviously special times. Unless, of course, you're some kind of insane-martyr-super-parent-chef-knifewielder-spectacular, in which case, feel free to go full-Bento-competition with every meal.
2) Faces don't have to be limited to food. You can pretty-up plain stuff that's cheap instead of buying pre-decorated stuff for more money. Bandaids are our recent discovery for this example.
Peo recently cut her big toe and I couldn't find the one and only package of licensed-character bandaids we bought (which we only got because it was the only source of teeeeeeeeeny tiny infant-finger-size bandaids we could find), so I drew a stick figure on a regular bandaid in about five seconds and made a big deal about how special it was. Soon it turned into a big thing where Peo was much happier about her wound simply because of the potential for other exciting drawings on the bandaid. She confuses "plain" with "plane" all the time so Corran has been drawing planes on the plain bandaids, which delights her (actually lately we think she's punning it more than being confused, but same difference).
Caveat: ensure the child does not start wasting things to get more new designs. Peo has to be stopped from ripping off perfectly good bandaids to try to get new ones. Or as she phrases it, "It's not special anymore!" No. Not allowed. Don't ever give in or you are HOSED. If they rip off the bandaid, either they don't get another one until the next time you'd put on a fresh one anyway (like when Peo took hers off during dinner and she was going to bed in an hour anyway), or if you need to put another one on, that one stays plain until it'd be time for a fresh one. They will cry. Be strong...the delight will return on the next drawn-on one and they'll be more inclined to treasure it and not waste it.
Other things we've put smiley faces on over the years:
- Reused food tubs have been turned into Angry and Happy faces for bath-time play (Sharpie on a semi-clear deli tub seems to last for years). - Rocks, with paint, markers, more dirt, whatever...or just draw 'em in the sand/mud...or any nature-based face is good when you're outside - During any art or craft time, show your wee one how to make a smiley face out of stickers, paint (be it brush or finger or full-smacking hand in glorious splashy colour-puddles), googly eyes (don't for one second limit them to eyes alone!), glitter glue, regular white glue (seriously, buy it in bulk and let 'em squirt it and study fluid dynamics and don't fret about the excess), stamps (the rubber kind...DO NOT LET CHILD SEE YOU USING POSTAGE STAMPS UNLESS YOU CAN KEEP THEM OUT OF REACH or unless you reeeeeaaaallly like supporting the post office), crayons/pencils, pre-cut paper/wood/foam shapes, whatever. You'd be amazed at how much delight a little kid gets out of seeing or making faces.
This is when I cue dididdlyi to say how much she likes spotting face patterns in things, as do I (I had a whole army of them marked out on my cubicle wall when I was a staff writer for a tech mag), and of course the whole face thing is deeply rooted in our brains and that's no doubt why kids seek them out, etc etc etc. The psychological imperative is interesting but not necessary to know or understand: the point is, put faces on everything for your kids and make a big deal out of it and it can go a long way to mitigating a lot of behavioural issues. It doesn't generally stop a tantrum in full swing, but it can avoid some tantrums in the first place. Or at least, it doesn't seem to hurt. | comments: 12 comments or Leave a comment  |
| What Happens to Donated Clothes?
Saw this in a discussion on a mama list about what to do with clothes that are too ripped/worn to donate. Apparently, according to the article, places like Goodwill don't chuck those, as I had always assumed. They sell them as potential recyclable material/filler to textile works, or to other less picky places. Then they can use that money for their local programs.
So when we moved and sorted old clothes into "good enough to donate to Goodwill" and "kinda meh, save for craft harvesting" and "crap, throw in the trash", apparently we could have just dumped it all on Goodwill and it wouldn't have gone to waste. Or still be filling up our house.
So there you have it. Don't just reserve nice things for donation; they can make money from all of it, provided it's not actually rotting in such a way as to contaminate other things. Chuck stuff with mildew or other rot, but donate the rest, even if it's ripped, worn, etc. | comments: 1 comment or Leave a comment  |
| Attention Austin folks who've heard about the new Newflower market opening in South Austin today (aka Sunflower market elsewhere, but since there's already a store here called that, they're calling their Texas stores Newflower):
I went to Newflower today (insane waits, even for parking, but Peo was happy with the free ice cream...until it dribbled all over her dress and the floor, aiiee) and wrote down some prices:
Bulk rolled oats, non-organic: 0.99 / lb Bulk rolled oats, organic: 1.49 / lb (I believe that's the same as HEB on Slaughter/Escarpment, but that Central Market is a dime cheaper) Orrowheat breads: 4.99 (they're $3.99 at HEB) Bulk Dried Apples, sulphured, non-organic: 3.99 / lb Bulk Dried Apples, non-sulphured, organic: 8.99 / lb Bulk Tabouli mix: 3.99 /lb Bulk pastry flour: 1.29 / lb Bulk whole wheat flour: 0.99 / lb Bulk AP flour: 0.99 / lb Seventh Generation diapers, size 4, 30 pack: 12.99 Boneless beef rump roast: 4.99 / lb Organic milk: The cheapest that day was Horizon, regular 5.59, but on sale for 4.99. CM Organics milk is always 4.99, at CM or HEB.
And extra notes from my receipt:
Garlic cloves: 4 / $1 Bananas on sale for 0.47 per lb but I believe that's the regular price, or close to it, at HEB 16 oz strawberries on special for 0.88, regular price is $2.99 Earth's best Honey or Apple Cinnamon snack crackers: 3.29 per box (it's just nice to see them in stock, although too bad they don't have the whole grain/multigrain cereal mixes, just the rice one) Organic applesauce, including regular and mixed with other fruits: on sale for $1.99, regular $2.49 Organic mushroom spaghetti sauce: on sale for 2.79, regular price 3.79, I think the CM Organic equivalent sauce is $2.99 at HEB 8 oz bag of Neti pot salt (hard to find elsewhere): 2.59 But oddly, a 10 oz jar was over 6 dollars. That's a lot for the jar!
I also wanted ground cloves, but they didn't appear to have bulk spices as CM/HEB does, and while they had some store-branded spices for really good prices, the selection was limited. Their other spices were natural/organic, depending on the spice, and too expensive for my budget (I think the ground cloves were something like $7ish, forgot to write it down, sorry). I wanted ground pork but they didn't have any. Meat selection is fairly limited compared to HEB.
Overall I'd say the selection is somewhat comparable to Central Market, albeit smaller, and the prices are similar or a bit more than Central Market/HEB. Probably useful if it's closer to you than Central Market and if you shop sales, but I personally wouldn't go again for price savings unless there was a specific and awesome sale.
PS They're giving out a free reuseable bag all day today, with purchase. | comments: 1 comment or Leave a comment  |
| I need to clear out some tabs that have been piling up...infodump time!
Pre-Paid Cellphones Aren't Just For Losers Anymore! - Links to some good Consumer Reports reviews/information about the budgetary sense of going pre-paid for low-minute users. We've only ever had pre-paid ourselves for this very reason. Our original T-Mobile phone, purchased the week Peo was born, is still working and only costs us $25 a YEAR to keep active, and unused minutes keep rolling over. We only use it for emergencies and the occasional call-from-the-store-to-check-with-the-person-at-home type calls, so we've never had to add extra minutes. This would clearly not suit heavy cell phone users, but it suits us just fine (we prefer the much more frugal email for most information exchange, and the much more frugal landline for when we need to actually make calls, plus the landline's rate to Australia - our only usualy long distance - is considerably better than anyone on cell or digital is offering).
When I see people in line at the grocery store or failing to watch their kids at the playground while talking endlessly on their cell phones whining about how hard it is to save money, I must suppress my urge to laugh and laugh and laugh...
Cheat Sheet for Sketchy Food Expiration 'Codes' - for checking coded expiry dates on food. Potentially highly useful.
And for the record, you DO need to check expiry dates, even on boxed food. After I reported a shelf full of expired boxes of Kraft Mac and Cheese to a manager at a grocery store in Vegas, bringing about 10 of the expired boxes to the customer service counter and turning the rest on the shelf to show the date, I later caught that manager putting the boxes back and turning them all so the dates were to the rear of the shelf. Seriously. I let him know that I'd caught him and reported the store to the Clark County Health Department, and never shopped there again.
At the Vons where we shopped, I several times found expired food on the shelves and brought it to their attention, but to their credit, they didn't put it back and ordered new stuff. It did take well over a month on the pectin which delayed my jam-making, though.
Also, if the dates on the packages in front are close, look to the packages further back on the shelf.
And yes, I do know that the dates are frequently "sell by" dates and that the food is edible long after. I also know that canned goods are frequently good for years beyond their stated date. But some things do start to get less pleasant to eat, lose nutritional benefits (ie you can eat yogurt beyond it's date quite frequently, but most or all of the active live cultures will be dead), or in the case of baking ingredients, they may not perform their functions as well after expiry. So I generally like to at least buy them before they're expired.
Dallas police to take part in photo lineup study designed to limit faulty eyewitness testimony - interesting to read, plus nice to know they're looking into the problems associated with faulty lineup identifications.
Alzheimer's drugs double death risk in elderly - "they think the drugs could be damaging to the brain and their sedative effects make patients less able to exercise and more susceptible to deadly infections." Fun!
Experimental Drug Could Help People with Alzheimer's Disease - Let's hope this one works better without nasty side effects like death!
Children forced into cell-like school seclusion rooms - So much wrong with this, and so very sad.
Crouching tufty, hidden dragon: The amazing Kung Fu squirrels - The day I saw this, squirrels were battling like crazy on the tree outside my window here. They're fierce little bastards!
Overweight women have lower risk of premature birth - which is pretty much the exact opposite we've been hearing from our doctors for so very long.
Poison shrub oil powers New Zealand airline flight - Whether this plant is feasible for long term use or not, it's awesome that they're trying stuff out, and I loved this bit: ""It is Air New Zealands long-term goal to become the worlds most environmentally sustainable airline and we have today made further significant progress towards this," Chief Executive Rob Fyfe said in the statement." I love NZ. :)
Antibiotics before infections save lives: study - I guess this makes sense since people in that situation are already more prone to infection. I just hope it doesn't set back the efforts of the medical community in terms of convincing everyday people to stop asking for antibiotics as placebos.
I've got more too plus a library activism thing to post but I'm tired, more tomorrow... | comments: 2 comments or Leave a comment  |
| Someone on my local frugal living list posted three interesting articles on saving money on groceries so I'm passing them along:
8 Ways to Cut Your Grocery Bill - I found that most of the useful info was on the second page.
I also followed a link from that story to this one, none of which was news to me but are good tips for anyone getting into frugal shopping: Top 5ive Supermarket Tricks . I noticed a trick of sorts at HEB starting just before US Thanksgiving: they had tags above typical holiday goods (ie boxed stuffing mix) that said something like, "Stock Up Now For the Holidays!" It was enough to make me check prices, thinking, "Hrm, is this a stock-up sale?" I quickly realized that no, none of the tagged products were on sale, but I was supposed to assume they were and throw extra in my cart...
The Best and Worst Warehouse Club Deals - general guides on what's usually a good deal at stores like Costco and what isn't. For the record, organic milk in South Austin is a dollar cheaper at HEB than Costco, but I think regular milk is indeed cheaper at Costco. Eggs are very close, but the 18-pack at Costco is a few cents cheaper per egg so I buy there when I can, but at HEB if that's the most convenient (in other words, even in a fuel-sipping Civic, it's not worth the gas to go to Costco, even right down the street, just for eggs, but it would be comparing the egg price at Whole Foods).
Healthy Foods for Under $1
Although a caveat about coupons that I've learned from personal experience and from The Complete Tightwad Gazette by Amy Dacyczyn (link provided for info...I frugally read it from my local library in Vegas, and a note that it's from the 90s so outdated on many things but still a great book for the general principals of frugal living) that coupons are actually not frequently a good way to save money, especially not manufacturer's coupons. Store coupons sometimes have benefits (I'm a fan of the percentage-off coupons for craft stores, sign up to get yours on each store's website), but often require you to buy things you don't need in order to get a small deal on something you do need (ie $1 off chips if you buy hot dogs, but that's only a true savings if you were going to buy both products with those specified brands anyway).
Manufacturer coupons are rarely a good deal unless it's a brand you always buy and you have no interest in the no-name or other cheaper versions. 50 cents off of something that's $4.95 when there's an off-brand version that's just as good for $2.95 is NOT a savings. I only bother with high-yield coupons on brands I'm very loyal to, and even then, bulk packs at Costco or sometimes even in stores themselves are still a better deal (ie saw a coupon once for 25 cents off of a box of Kraft Mac and Cheese, but the cost of the single box at the time in Vegas was $1.20 whereas the bulk pack at Costco put each box closer to the $0.75 mark...but Costco no longer has the bulk packs and the Mac and Cheese is cheaper in Austin by far so here that 25 cent coupon would indeed be worthwhile, which is probably why I haven't seen any...).
Most coupons are designed to trick you into getting something that the coupon maker assumes you don't really want or need. Otherwise they wouldn't give you the savings. They either want to get you into the store in the first place and hope you'll buy other overpriced things, or they want to establish brand loyalty on a new product, or they want to link various products in your mind to alter your shopping habits in the future (ie once you've given your kid chips with their hot dog, you will always have to do so!).
So please, be sensible with coupons if you're trying to be frugal. Don't assume you're getting a good deal.
Mind you, if you do want to get some really good and useful coupons, here are two tips I know of that have worked for me multiple times:
1) Many survey companies give out awesome coupons in exchange for doing the surveys. In particular, Shopper's Choice (they send fill-in-the-box style surveys out in the mail) used to have FANTASTIC coupons with long or no expiry dates from the companies paying for the surveys. For instance, one year there were questions about how often the household uses cake mixes and what brands are preferred, stuff like that. The coupon reward that came later was from a big cake mix company's newest line and the coupon was for a FREE cake mix. Not buy-one-get-one-free, just one for FREE. Even the cashier at the store commented about how awesome that was. Basically, a free sample in coupon form.
However, Shopper's Choice has been giving out less great coupons in the last couple of years, so I don't guarantee that you'll get anything that good. But if you like doing surveys to let companies know what you want, that's one that you might want to actually do the next time you get one in the mail.
I think they have a website and I bet if I got a referral code I could get some kind of reward, but that's more time than I have right now...
2) A more recent and lucrative tip I've discovered recently is that if you email a company whose products you like to tell them either a) you love their stuff or b) that you usually love their stuff but have recently had a problem, more often than not they'll end up sending you a coupon as thanks for the email. Not always, but frequently. I've also heard that sometimes if you blatantly ask for coupons (maybe couching it as, "Gee I love your product but times are tough, can I have a coupon?") they'll send you some. Those are almost always great coupons, too.
Some examples:
- I once emailled Bi-O-Kleen to let them know that we love their eco-friendly, non-toxic cleaning products but that it was getting harder and harder to find certain products in town, so they apologized for that and said they were working with distributors to increase availability, and oh by the way here's a stack of $2 off coupons. - As posted here, I recently let Seventh Generation know that their quality had declined on some paper products, and they agreed that they were having some issues with a supplier and hoped I'd try again in a few months when they hope to have the problem fixed. They've sent a coupon I can use at the time (can't remember how much it's for but it's a good one). - I emailled Tylenol to let them know I was unhappy that they didn't have a sugar-free version of their infant fever medication and they sent me a $1 off coupon for any of their products. Not that that helped, really, but I guess if I wasn't already buying much cheaper generic acetaminophen, I might have used it. - I had a coupon for $5 off of a prescription drug and Walgreen's system wouldn't take it unless I got it without insurance in which case it would have cost me gobs more, so I complained to the drug company and eventually they sent me a $5 cheque without bothering to confirm if I'd actually purchased the drug (I had, although shortly after that changed to a generic anyway).
I've had others over the years as well but memory is failing me. Trust me, it's frequently worth poking a company to see what they'll give you to keep you a happy customer. | comments: 6 comments or Leave a comment  |
| Infodump of interesting stories/links found recently:
A bunch about craptastic US health care:
Doing a Volume Business in Liver Transplants - yet another example of why money and health care shouldn't mix, and this is even a so-called "non-profit" hospital (which should help illustrate why the "non-profit" status in the US can be very flimsy)
How our hospitals unleashed a MRSA epidemic - I think the lesson from this article is to refuse to undergo any kind of surgery unless you've checked for sure that the hospital does MRSA screenings first. And you can bet most insurance won't cover it, if the hospitals are whining that it's too costly for them to bother. You'd think the infections and amputations would be more expensive, but you just know that somewhere a bean counter has figured out that overall, no, it's slightly cheaper to just pay to fix the broken people (and then hey, you always get the chance to deny them anyway!). Yet another example of why profit doesn't mix with health care!
Many Arizonans skip health care due to cost - just in case there's anyone left dumb enough to think that US health care isn't in crisis, even for the insured.
Brains of autistic slower to react to sounds: study - I'm particularly interested in the new technology that could allow for autism screening even younger. Here's to hoping insurance will cover it as it becomes available without having the government step in to force it to be covered...*snicker*snort*HAHAHAHAHAHA* yeah okay I couldn't even type that with a straight face. US health insurance would never cover an expensive new test that would just make them have to cover autistic treatments sooner.
Little progress, many holes in kids' mental health system - this is about the fixing of a law a couple of weeks ago that had a loophole that was letting parents of older kids with mental health problems abandon them. It quite rightly questions the sorry state of US health care as applied to mental health, particularly for kids, that would get to the point where so many parents would need to abandon kids that they can't afford to treat. Again, US health care is screwed up and anyone who doesn't get that by now needs to smarten up.
A bunch about food and other safety issues:
Children at risk in food roulette; Mislabeling, lax oversight threaten people with allergies - What bothers me more than the food manufacturers screwing up is the complete lack of concern by the USDA. I believe a lot of this self-regulation or self-testing crap in USDA policy came about during this Bush administration. I suppose my libertarian friends would complain about too much big government getting involved, but sheesh, if you label your product as "gluten free" and someone dies because, as the Tribune's tests show, it's SO NOT GLUTEN FREE, at that point I don't think it should be left to lawsuits to punish the company. No, this is what government is for: to protect people from dangerous companies.
Oh, and big strike against Whole Foods for not caring enough, given that it's a product exclusive to their store. No, it's not their job to have tested, but on the news they should have pulled every box off of their shelves. When I shop at Whole Foods, which is significantly more expensive than regular stores, I do so for higher quality goods and in the last year or so, I have heard too many stories and rumours like this about the overall decline in that quality.
Two stories about how the FDA is now allowing just a little bit of poison in infant formula. But don't be afraid, they say, because it really just a tiny bit. Weeee tiny bit. No worries, really. Mmmhm. FDA Says Trace Amount of Melamine in Baby Formula Safe FDA sets 'safe' levels for melamine in baby formula
Which is yet another good argument for breast feeding, for those who can (while the majority of women can breastfeed but choose not to for perceived convenience, about 5% of women have actual medical problems that prevent them from doing so). Mind you, Corran said he saw an article about melamine going into animal feed and coming out in cow's milk, so presumably if mothers eat food that's contaminated, their breast milk might have it as well, in which case breastfeeding wouldn't be any safer. Nice.
11th-hour rush to enact a rule Obama fought - it's going to be a fun couple of months until we get these asshats out of power! More toxins for everyone, wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
Two about the economy:
We Found the W.M.D. - Friedman opinion piece about the need to pay the proper kind of attention to the economy's problems right away. Oh, and I agree with him about ditching expensive inaugral parties. Now is not the time for the leaders of the empire to be seen wallowing in opulence, no matter how happy they are at being elected.
The Ethics of Being a Tightwad; Amid the economic slump, don't feel bad about putting saving ahead of spending. In fact, it's unethical to squander money you can't afford to spend - I love this article and agree with it, especially this great bit:
There is something fundamentally wrong with an economic philosophy that requires people to spend money so that the economy will remain strong. Not only does such an outlook weaken our ability to save, but it is tied to the false idea that happiness is to be found in the acquisition of material goods
There are few people I buy presents for at all. I make things for lots of people, including baking and knitting, and it has occasionally, but rarely, happened that I've been harshly judged for such (at one particular birthday party from hell, the knitted bear I gave the birthday boy was literally tossed aside by the parents when he tried to play with it in his expensive, battery-powered, plastic truck that another attendee gave him). Those aren't people I care to associate with again. I never judge anyone for giving me an inexpensive gift, nor do I expect gifts from anyone. More often than not I'm embarassed by it, since I see gift-giving as a pretty personal thing to be mostly kept amongst very close friends and family. I just don't see the need to throw money around to impress everyone I know, and I'm not impressed by having it thrown at me.
Plus, seriously, I don't need much. The occasional craft book, DVD, or CD is nice, but I never feel like I have to get them from anyone. We decided the easiest way for me to listen to music and podcasts while doing dishes (which I used to do through our DVR and TV on the house's network in Vegas, but doesn't work well in the Austin house) was to get an iPod and speakers, so Corran got me that for my birthday. We also decided that there's lots our Oster mixer can't do, and we've drooled over the Kitchenaids for years, so when we saw that Costco was going to have them on deep discount last weekend, I got one for Corran for Christmas (he knows, but the colour is the big secret). So really, our gifts are things we have carefully evaluted and decided we need/want and we're using the holiday as an excuse. Neither of us is going to go hog wild getting piles of other stuff for each other; a thing of interest here and there, that's it.
Even Peo this year will not be getting tons of stuff. I've still got some FPLP stuff in reserve, so she'll get the castle and all of its bits and pieces this year. That money was spent over a year ago. I'm going to pop out to a store I know sells resale toys and see if there's anything else cool and inexpensive, and they also sell egg shakers (basically a little maraca shaped like an egg, Peo loves these at places like the children's museum), so I'll get her one as a stocking stuffer. Maybe some other books. But no pile of battery-operated plastic junk, thanks. She doesn't need it, we don't have room for it, we don't want to waste money on it.
I agree with this article and others I've seen that this economy is the best excuse in a long time for the orgy of holiday spending to be cut back down to size. You don't have to be miserly about it; just stay within a sensible budget. Don't attach so much emotional value to the volume of STUFF. If you can't afford the toy your kid is desperate for, don't put your entire living situation at risk just to get it for them. I totally get the thrill of giving your kid something that delights them; I found that after Peo was born, I was just so happy to have my precious baby at last that I wanted to give her EVERYTHING. The toy aisles that were so painful to see when I couldn't get pregnant now beckoned and I wanted to spend and spend and spend for her. But I've calmed down. I've had to evaluate her pile of toys (which is still by far over 50% hand-knitted), see how the stuff accumulates and never gets played with, and come to the realization that less is more. Too many toys is overwhelming.
I'm no fan of the other side that pines away for the days of Laura Ingalls being happy with her one and only corncob doll (that's easy to examine with such dreamy eyes when you conveniently disregard that Laura was a breakout for her generation in becoming a writer, when most girls in her day only had a corncob doll because all they were expected to do with their lives was to become mothers and housewives...I'd like to give my daughter some toys that open up possibilities like research, creativity, engineering, math, physics, etc., thanks muchly). Excessive deprivation just turns kids into adults who'll go nuts overspending for themselves in order to feel better about everything they felt left out of as a kid.
But seriously, folks...chill out on the spending. None of us knows what's coming next year. Any of us could suddenly end up jobless. Any of us in the US could suddenly lose health insurance and be forced to pile up debt for basic care. Save now for the uncertain tomorrow; that's a far better gift to you and yours than a pile of presents under the tree.
Misc:
W00t! Merriam-Webster's past 'Words of the Year'
Cool half time show with marching band making classic video game shapes from indomitability.
Study: Women's hands hold more bacteria - That's all I need, just when over the last few years I'd finally started to get my obsessive hand-washing under control (mostly because one day, after great efforts to wash my hands after changing Peo's barely-peed-on diaper, she then sneezed into my mouth while I was carrying her downstairs and yawning). I'm resisting washing now!
Anti-Land Mine Campaign Says Britain Isn’t Abiding by Treaty - Well that's just swell. Nice. Oh, and before any Americans get uppity, the US didn't even sigh the treaty. I admit to having fallen behind on this issue, so correct me if I'm wrong, but I do know that in the late 1990s, Canada was considered a global leader in the landmine ban. I would be deeply ashamed if I found out they were renegging on that now. | comments: Leave a comment  |
| 1) Peo is totally in love with School House Rock. I love that she's already learning about nouns and prepositions, but some of the American history ones leave a lot to be desired, like the bit about sending loyalists back to England. Mm, kind of leaving out the massive assault, torture, and killing that went on with that, and oh, that a lot of them actually went to Canada (I was raised to see loyalists as heroes). It's very telling about the power of perspective with some of these revolutionary songs about bravery and heroism when, if the same songs were sung right now by various Islamic factions trying to throw invaders out of their country, they would inspire outrage in the US.
Because that's the thing about any revolution, of course: the same violent act is both heroic *and* terrorism, depending on perspective. Winners just get to sing their songs for longer.
So I'm okay with the ones that are about honest pride in one's nation, and Peo's American so that's cool. The one about Lady Liberty doesn't do much for me but I'm totally okay with Peo liking it, because it's positive and non-violent (although I was out of the room briefly during it). But the celebration songs of shooting British soldiers are kind of creepy.
2) I hate being sick. I'm starving constantly but lack appetite. I decided I really wanted something salty for my sore throat, and not having any Campbell's chicken soup on hand, I figured I'd make a toasted bacon sandwich.
But I've been buying low-sodium bacon and margarine, which is totally fine stuff when I can breathe through my nose and taste it.
Unfortunately, being totally plugged up, my sandwich tasted like this:
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And Peo threw a tantrum after my first bite, so in getting up to deal with her, I got the hiccups.
I am so not having a fun day.
3) I also let Peo watch The Jungle Book for the first time this morning. She was SO HAPPY about Baloo. Everything he did was awesome by her. He was my favourite Disney character when I was a kid, so that's cool.
Looking at him as an adult, I still sort of dig his philosophy. In "The Bare Necessities", what he's saying is that you don't have to work all that hard in life, just enough to get what you need and then be happy with the rest. There are lines in there about leaving luxury aside and just being happy with the freedom of basic living. As someone into frugality and some amount of simple living, I like that.
But I can see how for someone driven to acquire, Baloo would come off as lazy. Again, perspective is a funny thing. | comments: 2 comments or Leave a comment  |
| Okay, here we go, a big fat hairy post summing up all of our housing-related nonsense from the past year. Yes, it's been a year since this all started. Oi. But this should answer some questions about vague things I've posted during that time.
This isn't friendlocked so I'll be careful to keep certain topics to the minimum, but it should be enough for everyone interested to get the gist of what we've been through. It's a long read so I don't really expect anyone to read every word, but there are some fun bits in there like a company going out of business and our adventures with a Texas State Trooper, so enjoy...
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| Finally getting to December's photos and movies! Breaking them up into two parts.
Part 1: December 1 through 22, 39 photos and links to 5 movies.
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| I've heard some people talking up Salvation Army recently and thought maybe it was time for some reminders why progressive folks, gay rights activists, those who believe in separation of church and state, non-Christians, etc. ought to think twice about donation to Salvation Army at all:
http://www.alternet.org/story/27122/?page=entire
http://www.nyclu.org/node/1086
http://atheism.about.com/b/2005/11/24/salvation-army-sued-by-gay-jewish-social-worker.htm
http://www.365gay.com/opinion/neff/neff.htm
And the followup letter to that last one at http://www.365gay.com/opinion/Letters/Letters.htm is of particular interest to me...I've long been pissed off at the American Red Cross for discriminating against gay blood donations when other Red Crosses do not, and I wasn't willing to let them off the hook regarding the legal requirement because hey, they're the Red Cross, they could bloody well do some lobbying if they were against it. But if that writer is correct and the American Red Cross has spoken out against the discrimination in blood donations, I might actually be willing to cut them some slack. Maybe. I'd have to find some clear-cut proof, and I'd still want them to do some active lobbying to get the stupid rule changed.
Anyway, point is, Salvation Army is a right-wing pseudo-military evangelical Christian group. If that's your bag, hey, go ahead and throw a dollar in the kettle. But if that conflicts with your values, save your dollar for a worthier cause, and save your used clothing and other donations for Goodwill instead.
(And a pssst to my frugal friends...Goodwill stores often have some pretty good stuff for dirt cheap if you're willing to look, and your local store probably has a calendar of regular sales, so see if you can save a buck or two while helping out the community at the same time! See http://goodwill.org for more info.)
eta...more links from more highly official sources in the comments. | comments: 13 comments or Leave a comment  |
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